BTP’s Mail Club

A monthly mail ritual for hotties who love good smells and liberation

Welcome to Burn the Patriarchy's Mail Club, a monthly subscription for queer joy, feminist rage, soft domestic magic, and really good smells. This is not just a candle subscription. It’s a ritual, a love letter, and a little rebellion delivered every month to your mailbox.

Each month is built around a theme (think: rage & rest, queer domesticity, softness as resistance) and includes exclusive items made just for subscribers!

✨ Free U.S. shipping always included ✨ (use code MAILCLUB at checkout the first time and it will be free every time!)

MAIL CLUB UPDATE FOR JUNE!!

The past couple of months have been a whirlwind between markets, events, and keeping Burn the Patriarchy running as a one-woman show. I'm also heading back to California next week to be a bridesmaid in a wedding, and after a lot of thought, I've decided to give myself a little breathing room rather than rushing out a Mail Club package that doesn't feel as special as you deserve.

Because of that, I'll be combining June and July into one extra-fun Summer Mail Club package that will ship mid July!!

Everyone will be receiving a complimentary tier upgrade:

 - Mail Club members will receive a Candle Club package

- Candle Club members will receive a Hottie Club package 

  (candle + wax melt, car diffuser & gift)

- Hottie Club members will receive an extra handmade surprise plus a room spray

This will not effect new subscribers/people who subscribed after June 10th (your first box will ship mid July as planned!!)

Mail Club Schedule

All Mail Club orders put in before 10th of each month will be sent that month's mail. Orders places after the 10th will be sent the next month's mail :) 

📬 Ships in the middle of each month

Billing & Shipping:
Subscriptions renew monthly on your original order date. Each renewal covers the upcoming Mail Club edition, which ships out in the middle of each month!

Choose Your Tier 💌

 Snail Mail Club — $14.44 / month

A slow, sweet love letter to your mailbox

Includes:

Monthly printed letter/newsletter

Mini zine or themed insert

1–2 vinyl stickers

Candle scent sample or mini wax melt

Incense of the month

Rotating paper goodie (bookmark, art print, match striker, etc.)

Special Coupon Code

🔥 Candle Club — $33.33 / month

Snail mail + an exclusive candle ritual

Includes everything in Snail Mail Club, plus:

-Exclusive Candle of the Month

   -subscriber-only

   -limited edition

   -never sold publicly

Each candle is inspired by the monthly theme and poured just for club members.

😈 Hotties Club — $55.55 / month

For the indulgent, the devoted, the extremely hot

Includes everything in the Snail Mail & Candle Club, plus:

-Full-size wax melt

-Car diffuser

-One rotating surprise gift ! (matches, lighter, dish, keychain, etc.)